Friday, March 19, 2010

I Wish That I Had Jesse's Girl...

Well not really.

I mean I like Sandra Bullock, but I was never much of a fan.  When she married Jesse James I knew she was damaged, which actually made me a little bit of a fan.  You know how I dig the crazy...

Everyone is talking about James cheating with the tattoo chick and there are so many ways to comment on this story.  

Let's start with the obvious, why did he cheat on her, with her?

He has a perfectly good woman at home and he hits that?  Maybe that was the problem, she was too perfectly good.

Then there is the issue that he is possibly worth more money than her, but she gets all the attention.  How does a man deal with that?  

Screw some tramp, it appears.

Hard to say what his net worth really is.  Some places say his net worth up to $100 million.  Bullock's net worth is said to be $85 mil.

What I will focus on for this post is a conversation I had tonight at dinner.  Maybe I'll go into the other stuff on the show.

A woman in our group said, "Poor Sandra Bullock, don't you feel sorry for her?  I feel sorry for her!"

How can I answer that?

Simply, I guess.  NO, I don't!

When you marry a dude that already has two ex-wives, one of them a porn star and a junkie, you knew what you were getting into.

What did she think, she was going to save him?

That's not ever going to happen.
You always hear, don't judge a book by it's cover, but in this case, she had the cover, the forward, and the summary.

The dude makes his living being the bad boy, her good girl image isn't good for his image.  

They both make their living off their image and she, of all people, should understand that.

I'm not condoning or condemning James here.  It's similar to the Tiger thing.  The dude should never be married.  If you want to troll for tail, go ahead, just don't get freakin' married.  It's simple.

But again, if you are going to cheat, avoid porn stars, (Tiger) or chicks like this.

Discretion does not seem to be very high on their list of virtues.

If I were a single guy, and had the opportunity, I would have done both of them. 

Preferably at the same time...


Blogger Pastorius said...

It's easy to say, don't cheat. But, it comes down to habits. If a dude plays around on his girlfriends when he's single, then he's got a habit that's going to be hard to kick when he decides to get married.

Hence, Jesse James and Sandra Bullock.

It ain't a surprise at all.

By the way, it's called cheating for a reason. Sure, one is cheating on one's wife, but in a way, that's the least of it.

The guy who cheats in sports or business and wins, does not truly win. He walks around knowing he is a fake. He doesn't truly challenge himself. He doesn't prove himself to himself. He is a walking void.

Ultimately, cheating is cheating oneself.

That's the real disaster.

Some people get the consequences, but the consequences are the least of it.

8:52 AM  
Blogger The Fu2rman said...

Very well said!

2:15 PM  

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